What Makes a Good Neighbor?
There are a few good rules of thumb to follow when it comes to qualities that make a good neighbor. Being a good neighbor uses the same moral principles as being a good friend, good coworker, and a good person. It all starts with respect and kindness.
Mutual Respect
Respect comes in many forms. Especially during COVID, it’s important to have respect for your neighbors’ boundaries. If you live in a closed-in condo complex, it can be a sign of respect to carry around a mask and put it on when you come into contact with your neighbors.
If you have dogs, show respect by always picking up after them when they go to the bathroom and making sure they are leashed on walks just in case your neighbor has a fear of dogs or an animal that doesn’t like other animals.
Even if you love to party, make sure you show respect for your fellow neighbors by respecting standard quiet hours. You never know if someone might have an early shift the next morning. If you ever do have conflicts with your neighbors, show them respect, and receive respect in return.
Finding Kindness
While you don’t have to be best friends with your neighbors, it’s important to be kind. Say hello when you’re walking to your car, or flag any potential problems that you might notice. Helping one another is a great way to keep your community safe.
First, you’ll want to make sure you introduce yourself when you move in, or when new neighbors move into your community. If you have a housewarming party, it’s a lovely idea to invite your neighbors to get to know them better.
Not the partying type? Don’t fret. There are plenty of ways to get to know your neighbors to continue building a sense of community and safety on your block or in your complex.
How To Be The Best Digital Neighbor
With the rise of apps like Nextdoor and Ring, you can be a good neighbor digitally, too. As always, use your good judgment and don’t start rumors, arguments, or gossip on these apps. You can use apps like this to alert your neighbors to upcoming events or report things like found animals and police activity.
Conclusion
Being a good neighbor starts with kindness and respect. As the old saying goes, treat others the way you want to be treated. This will lead to a great sense of community with your neighbors.